Saturday, August 23, 2014

The Uninvited Guest

Luke 7:36-38New International Reader's Version (NIRV)

A Sinful Woman Pours Perfume on Jesus

36 One of the Pharisees invited Jesus to have dinner with him. So he went to the Pharisee’s house. He took his place at the table.
37 There was a woman in that town who had lived a sinful life. She learned that Jesus was eating at the Pharisee’s house. So she came with a special sealed jar of perfume.38 She stood behind Jesus and cried at his feet. She began to wet his feet with her tears. Then she wiped them with her hair. She kissed them and poured perfume on them.
New International Reader's Version (NIRV)
Copyright © 1996, 1998 by Biblica


The Uninvited Guest

He was invited to dinner at the house of Simon the Pharisee. It was a lovely house, a delicious dinner elegantly served. The perfect evening for host and guests. 
But then the uninvited guest showed up.
She was not of the same social status
She was not of the same class
She was not of the same economic status
She was not dressed properly
She did not know how to speak properly
She did fit in in any way
She was not respected, wanted or even politely tolerated
Talk about awkward...
Even Luke who wrote this episode down for us did not even know or give her name
She is know simply as a woman who had lived a sinful life.

We all sin
some sins are not easily seen by others except God
But this woman was identified by hers
Was there anyone in that room who did not immediately recognize her, know her
but only by her wrongs
only by her wrong choices
they saw nothing more about her

Why did she come and put herself into this most extremely awkward of situations?
uninvited, unwanted?
She had heard Jesus was there
She did not know when she would have another opportunity
So, she took an albastar jar of most precious perfume 
and she came
uninvited
unwanted
dispised
and judged 
her life a foregone conclusion
no hope of change in the minds of most

But

She came to love
She came to bless
She came to worship
She came to pour out
She came to be with HIm
She gave Him what Simon, the host, could not
She gave Him what the delicious dinner and the polite guests and the beautiful house did not

Love is messy
it interrupts and distubs
it upsets and shocks

She loved him and was not afraid to show it
She gave what she had
her love
her worship
her tears
her hair
clean feet

She was not stopped by viewing herself as unworthy to come to him
she was not stopped by viewing what she had to give as unworthy
she was not deterred by the location or the people there

She was determined to get to him
to be with him 
to pour our what she had
for his sake alone

She saw you more clearly than anyone else present who thought they saw so much more clearly than her
She saw you
not the house, not the guests, not even what they thought of her
She saw your beauty
She could not stay away

How you love those whom we despise
How you transform those whom we deem hopeless
How you recieve those who are outcasts, rejected, abandonded
You don't make cheap excuses for any of us
you see the depth of my need for you
you see clearly the selfish choices
the hurtful choices
my sin

But

You are not deterred 
you seek me out in the most difficult of places
in the worst of company
through my most unfriendly reactions and respones to you

You come
the uninvited guest
the shepherd diligently seeking out the one lost sheep when there are 99 others elsewhere
you come to love
you come to pour out 
you come to give
you come to heal
you come to transform
you come to give hope
you come 
Oh praise you! You come!
You weep over those you seek

You are willing to disrupt, interrupt, shock, disturb and mess up all my polite refusals and plans
You love passionately
completely
thoroughly
securely


1 John 4:10-16New International Reader's Version (NIRV)

10 What is love? It is not that we loved God. It is that he loved us and sent his Son to give his life to pay for our sins.
11 Dear friends, since God loved us that much, we should also love one another. 12 No one has ever seen God. But if we love one another, God lives in us. His love is made complete in us.

I love you Lord
Please come please enter into my house
enter into my life 
enter into my relationships
as with this woman
your love is enough 
it is enough to enter an immensely awkward and difficult social situaion and see only you
it is enough to pour out love on you and be free from what others think
it is enough to enable me to love those who I live with, love with, share this messy experience of life with
it is enough to love the most unloveable
the most difficult 
because
You are enough
You are here
help me to love the other you have placed here with me      with the love you have poured into me

1 John 4:19New International Reader's Version (NIRV)

19 We love because he loved us first.
New International Reader's Version (NIRV)
Copyright © 1996, 1998 by Biblica

see also John 13 




Tuesday, August 19, 2014

A Prayer to Care

Before they cut into me today to remove and test the what was growing inside, 
there was careful preparation...

antibiotics
sterile cloths
sterile instruments
clean room

any incision brings the hope of healing and the danger of infection

to go exposing and digging requires care
careful preparation

let me hesitate
pray carefully before
inserting my words, perspective, life into another's

I don't want to break the natural barrier of protection such as skin provides
unless I know I am clean
my instruments are clean

taking time to cover other areas that might cross contaminate

escorting the unrcessary out of the room

time alone with you
letting you purify

Psalm 139:23-24New International Reader's Version (NIRV)

23 God, see what is in my heart.
    Know what is there.
Put me to the test.
    Know what I’m thinking.
24 See if there’s anything in my life you don’t like.
    Help me live in the way that is always right.
New International Reader's Version (NIRV)
Copyright © 1996, 1998 by Biblica

Psalm 119:9New International Reader's Version (NIRV)

How can a young person keep his life pure?
    By living in keeping with your word.

Ephesians 5:25-28New International Reader's Version (NIRV)

25 Husbands, love your wives. Love them just as Christ loved the church. He gave himself up for her. 26 He did it to make her holy. He made her clean by washing her with water and the word. 27 He did it to bring her to himself as a brightly shining church. He wants a church that has no stain or wrinkle or any other flaw. He wants a church that is holy and without blame.

only you are Holy
free of all contamination
known or unknown

Cleanse me of the germs I cannot see or be aware of
Touch and heal where you see fit

fill me
use me
as your instrument
your tool
to bring healing

not to expose another to what may grow to their hurt
but what you know will meet what they truly need
in ways I know nothing about

Lord show me how to create a clean environment
where others can come
and be willing to be vulnerable
to let conversation occur is such a way that needs are exposed
and can be met with the proper care
with careful prayer

care ful
full of care
your care not my own
waiting on you
talking with you
leaning on you
depending on you

Oh you, the Great Physician
bring healing, wholeness, health
friendship, love, community
caring and carefulness
in this place

I cast all my care upon you
who cares for me
Care through me

Show your beauty
your tenderness
your truth
your kindness
your wisdom
your hope
your compassion
your conviction and turning anew
your forgiveness
your healing
your purpose
your glory

I worship you
You are the one who can do exceedingly above and beyond all that we can ask or think

sometimes there are things that must be removed,
wishing it was different will not help
hoping it will go away on its own will not help

Ephesians 4:15New International Version (NIV)

15 Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ.

bring us to you
help us to carefully minister to one another
speaking the truth in love

letting you incise away what is not of you in my heart and thoughts
my attitudes and presumptions
my careless words, thoughts or actions

May I be an instrument of your care
Thank you this is how you have cared for me
I love you Lord, because you have first loved me

1 John 4:10J.B. Phillips New Testament (PHILLIPS)

9-10 To us, the greatest demonstration of God’s love for us has been his sending his only Son into the world to give us life through him. We see real love, not in that fact that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son to make personal atonement for our sins.

an encouraging word for any significant relationship:

http://rickwarren.org/devotional/english/be-your-spouse-s-biggest-fan_02#.U_UVk_ldWSo